[istvan]

  Re: Do you have Any "SPECIAL" person in your live!

HEY... AKATSUKIKAWA & SAMIN

you both really help me as every one that post their opinions... but right now what do you think I should ???

ñ_ñ

I want to tell her that I like her.. but that scare me...

[AkatsukiKawa]

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Well.... i never confess love before, so i'm unexperienced in this problem.

By the way, this is my opinion :
i think you should tell her if you are ready (ready for the consequence i mean)

For example :
If she accepts your feeling, you should ready for your "new" relationship with her.
Of course your relationship isn't just a friend anymore. You should think how your relationship
will affect your llife (study maybe, or relationship with your other friends and parent, etc...)

If she rejects your feeling (i'm not wishing this, just IF, because it is still possible), you should ready to accept
her feeling, maybe she just want you as a friend. Some people can keep their friendship even though their feeling (in love)
aren't mutual (they can became best friend). But some other people can't keep their friendship because they feel guilty or even hatred.

Of course the consequence is depend on the person. i'm not R, i just know her from your story. And i can't see the future too. So i dont know what will happen tomorrow and the day after....

But, for me, i think it is better if the situation is clear. i mean, i know what is he/she think about me, even it's hurt. At least, after that, i know what should i do. If i dont take any action, nothing will happened and nothing will change.

In my case, i ask my "Big Brother" directly. why he didin't tell me that he and my friend are in relationship. After hearing the reason, my weight was lifted, and our relationship was going better because we know each other better. As for my special person.... i'm won't tell my feeling because i won't be his "good" girlfriend. i have to choose something else over him, so i just wishing him another good girlfriend.

[Kajin]

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don't be afraid of rejections, get used to it. it comes in handy later on in life. trust me. after getting rejected 3 times in a row in my H.S. years (although it's kinda random selection on the girls), it actually built up my personality/guts.

nowadays, I'm not really "afraid" of asking someone out nor being wishy washy.

[Yui9339]

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I think is my family.......It is Comensense in our life we cannot lost our family becoz family is more important with anything so in my life I can't lost my family.........

[Yui9339]

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I got see a person tell the important thing in his life is his computer how stupid is him just don't think wat then he just tell the answer........STUPID PERSON.....

[Lezares]

  Re: Do you have Any "SPECIAL" person in your live!

Of course! My relatieves and my cat) And ME ;)

[istvan]

  Re: Do you have Any "SPECIAL" person in your live!

you know AKATSUKIKAWA.......you and Kajin are Right... if I do not tell to R how I feel about her this is not goning to move into anyway... If do not tell her.. she will never know that I like her and tell me her answer....right now Im going to think about the time of when should I tell her ........ñ_ñ

[istvan]

  Re: Do you have Any "SPECIAL" person in your live!

I hope SAMIN could read this and post her opinion... maybe she is busy.. I hope she to be ok!! ñ_ñ

[AkatsukiKawa]

  Re: Do you have Any "SPECIAL" person in your live!

Ganbatte ne ^^!

[Kajin]

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Itsudemo